Divorce Advisory
In divorce, it’s essential to pick your battles.
Parenting Matters provides Divorce Advisory services that help you stay strategic, focused, reduce conflict and keep the process moving forward.
Instead of being overwhelmed by emotion or pulled into unnecessary disputes, Ellie acts as your Divorce Coach, bridging emotion and strategy so you can make clear, confident decisions.
Why choose Divorce Advisory
Divorce can feel overwhelming. Lawyers, accountants, friends and family all have their advice. But who helps you stay focused on what matters most?
At Parenting Matters, Ellie works with families to:
- Build child-focused, workable co-parenting strategies.
- Improve communication between co-parents.
- Provide focus and confidence alongside your legal team.
- Offer a pragmatic alternative to drawn-out court disputes.
The Parenting Matters approach
We address the non-legal, practical realities of divorce so you can navigate your separation with confidence.
The 8 Steps of Divorce Advisory
Step 1: Establish new routines
Create new parenting routines and manage co-parenting logistics.
Step 2: Set communication boundaries
Agree on how and when you communicate with your co-parent.
Step 3: Protect your reputation
Manage social media and keep personal matters professional.
Step 4: Draft clear communications
Prepare parenting messages that stay civil and constructive.
Step 5: Navigate social changes
Handle new partners, extended family and friendships.
Step 6: Manage wider communications
Coordinate consistently with schools, sports clubs and other networks.
Step 7: Prepare for parenting styles
Understand Parallel Parenting vs. Co-Parenting and what works best for you.
Step 8: Start over safely
Take practical steps for protecting yourself and building your future.